Leave when :
They are disrespectful
Violent language is being used
Violent physical treatment is applied
When you are being used for a certain purpose only : sexual, emotional regulation of the other, financial exploitation etc.
Emotional cheating - entertaining friends with benefits
They tell lies in order to manufacture a reality that suits better
They apply silence as a control maneuver even if they can speak or reach out
They do not hear, see, feel nor understand you
They are never there when you need help or their simple presence
They need you to be of a certain way so that you fit better their needs, desires
You cannot share your emotions, they are blocked or ignored
Your vulnerabilities are exploited or turned against you
Whatever you say is negated
Whatever you do is considered not good enough
You have to try to hard to have them in your life
No exchange of energy is happening, the relationship is one-sided
If you feel used -you probably are
If you feel unloved - you probably are
If you feel sad after interacting with them
Leave.
Yes, you can and must
In the name of your heart, for the sake of our human community
Leave.
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